Jim Steg • February 4, 2025

Be FIRST!

Find out how "BEING THE FIRST" helps transform your LIFESTYLE....

BE FIRST

We all have choices. We all have options. If we take a closer look at our lives, we’ll see that the opportunities we seek are often right in front of us. Stepping outside our comfort zone isn’t easy—it requires effort, brings stress, and often feels uncomfortable. But living the lifestyle we desire isn’t as difficult as we imagine. The key lies in defining what truly makes us happy.

Over the past 27 years in the construction industry, my definition of happiness has evolved numerous times. However, the most significant shift occurred on June 5, 2019. That day challenged everything I thought I knew about life. At the time, I believed I was in the best mental, physical, spiritual, and emotional shape of my life. But I was wrong.

On that day, I suffered a massive heart attack. Despite training daily, maintaining an active lifestyle, and assuming that burning countless calories justified my eating habits, I learned the hard way that I was not invincible. Lying in a hospital bed with a stent placed in my 100% clogged right artery, I gained a newfound appreciation for how fragile life truly is.

So, what does this have to do with “Being First”?

Everything.

That moment forced me to reevaluate my priorities—not just personally but professionally. Construction is my life. People are my life. Relationships are my life. And without life, there is no business. That realization changed everything: the way I communicate, the relationships I nurture, the way I present myself, the risks I take, and, most importantly, the time I cherish with family and friends.

There are no guarantees in life. We often push our dreams and desires to “someday,” assuming we have time. But the truth is, waiting for tomorrow to live the life you want today is not an option. Sometimes, it takes a life-altering event to stop you in your tracks and make you realize that the path you’re on may not be the right one—or at the very least, not the most effective one.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

  1. There are no guarantees—live life to the fullest..... every day.
  2. Take chances. Don’t reach the end wishing you had.
  3. Smile more.
  4. Tell your loved ones “I love you” daily because one day, you won’t have the chance.
  5. Make amends.
  6. Give more than you take.
  7. If you have an opportunity, take it.
  8. If you have a dream, chase it—it won’t chase you.
  9. Answer the call from your parents; one day, you won’t be able to.
  10. Tell the truth—the whole truth.
  11. Say what people need to hear, not just what they want to hear.
  12. We don’t get do-overs. Life is happening now—this is the stage, not the rehearsal.
  13. Live out loud. Not everyone will agree with you, and that’s okay—that’s how you know you’re truly living.
  14. Not everyone will support you, and that’s okay too. You will never make everyone happy.
  15. Stand by your beliefs. You are living life for yourself. We enter this world alone, and we leave it alone.
  16. If you believe in something and know it adds value to others with integrity and honesty, never waver.

So, what does this have to do with "Being First"?

Be the first to introduce yourself. The first to ask questions. The first to say hello. The first to smile. The first to give instead of take. The first to offer a hand. The first to take a chance. The first to offer advice. The first to help others. The first to be honest. The first to be truthful.

Because when your time comes, you will leave this world knowing you did the right thing—you made a difference.

BE FIRST.

By Jim Steg December 3, 2025
The Pawprint She Left on Our Hearts In Loving Memory of Emma Lou Steg 12/28/2013 – 12/1/2025 I don’t know how to even begin writing this, because my heart is completely broken. Yesterday, We lost our dog. But to call her a dog feels too small, too simple, too ordinary for who she truly was. Emma Lou Steg was my partner. My running companion. Our loyal shadow. Our best friend. She blessed our family, and she blessed this earth in ways only the purest souls can. Emma came into our lives on December 28th, 2013—this tiny white furball with big timid eyes that seemed to say, “I want my mommy.” From that moment, she became part of our family… and soon, the beating heart of it. She brought with her a level of unconditional love, affection, loyalty, and friendship that humans rarely offer each other. A Running Partner Like No Other Back in 2015, before Lenny ever joined us, Emma became my running partner. She knew the routine. The moment I started getting my gear ready, she’d be waiting by the door, barking like, “C’mon, Dad—let’s roll!” We put in hundreds and hundreds of miles together over the years. Trail after trail. Dawn after dawn. She stayed close, focused, gentle, never concerned with other dogs or distractions. It was just her and me—two souls moving together through the quiet beauty of the mountains. Those runs changed my life. They bonded us in a way I can’t put into words. She wasn’t just a dog running beside me… she was a companion who understood the rhythm of my soul. A Family Dog Through and Through From the moment she settled into our home with Theresa, Rylie, Kayla, and me, she loved being part of our family. She loved the bed—her bed, really—because that is where she felt safest, pressed against the people she loved most. Emma loved food, treats, swimming in every pool we ever had, and—maybe most of all—riding in the car with the sunroof open. She’d hop onto the console, lift her head to the sky, and let the wind hit her nose like it was the greatest gift the world had to offer. She was gentle, but protective. Sweet, but strong. A lover by nature, a guardian by instinct. And when life felt chaotic—when the world outside our walls was full of noise, division, and negativity—Emma was the one who brought us together. She was the calm in the storm. The love that required nothing in return. Her Bond With Lenny When Lenny came into our lives, Emma became the older sister he didn’t know he needed. Sure, she was calmer… more grounded… maybe even a little jealous at first. But soon, they became inseparable. Moving to Sedona in 2020, I took them both on long mountain runs. Watching Emma and Lenny together—two beautiful souls running through red rock trails—was nothing short of life-changing. They were peas and carrots, partners in pure joy. A Teacher in Fur Emma taught us everything we humans struggle to learn: What unconditional love truly looks like What loyalty feels like How to slow down How to appreciate moments instead of things How to show affection without expecting anything back How to forgive How to be present Dogs are only with us for a short time, but the lessons they leave behind outlive us all. Her Final Day In the last year, we saw her slowing down. Her body breaking down, her runs turning to walks. We knew time was catching her, but we never imagined it would happen so fast. On December 1st at 4:00 AM, I saw her lying there—alert but distant, staring into space. She never liked her paws or face touched, but that morning… she let me gently lift her chin as I told her I loved her. She looked at me like she was looking straight through me, and in that moment, I knew. I knew she was saying goodbye. While I was in Sedona, Theresa rushed her to the emergency hospital. Internal bleeding. Critical condition. I asked if they could keep her awake until I arrived, but she was in too much pain. Surgery and chemo might have given her three more months—but three months of suffering is not love. I got to FaceTime her. I raced from Sedona to Phoenix to say goodbye in person. When I walked into that room and saw her… it crushed me. My running partner… my loyal companion… the most loving soul I’ve ever known… was slipping away. It brought me to my knees. I couldn’t hold myself together. Losing Emma Lou hit me harder than anything I have ever experienced. A Soul Too Pure for This World If you’ve never experienced the bond between a dog and a human, I implore you to open your heart to it. There is nothing like it. Their love is honest. Their loyalty is unwavering. Their affection asks for nothing in return. Their devotion is unmatched. Emma Lou left a pawprint on my heart—and on my soul—that will never fade. She made me a better man, a better father, a better human. She taught me love in its purest form. Our home will never feel the same. The trails will never feel the same. My life will never feel the same. But I am grateful—so grateful—that God blessed us with her for nearly 12 years. Goodbye, Sweet Girl Emma Lou, you blessed our home, our hearts, and this earth. You changed us. You loved us without hesitation. You protected us, comforted us, and taught us what love really means. We will miss your gentle soul. We will miss your eyes. We will miss your excitement when we walked through the door. We will miss every single part of you. We love you, Emma Lou. Always. Forever. Thank you for the pawprint you left on our hearts. Rest easy, sweet girl. Run those mountains again. Emma Lou Steg 12/28/2013 – 12/1/2025 You will be missed dearly.
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